Candace The Happy Musician
Aug 18, 20211 min
Happy Musician Strategy
THE STRATEGY
Identify with yourself
Remind yourself that your failure(s) are not your identity and neither is your success.
THE STRATEGY
You are in a constant process, you will stumble, fall and even fail. The challenge is moving through failures and stumbling blocks as an observer. Think of mistakes and failures as a decision you made while doing the best you could at the time.
This is quite tricky for musicians because most of us believe being a musician is our identity, therefore when there is a mistake or failure, it cuts deep. Think of being a musician like 2 intertwined ribbons. identity and music although interwined are still separate. One does not become the other.
When you make a mistake or fail, analyze without personal persecution. Analyzing this way leads to understanding. When you get it, you will have the unwavering determination to try again and move forward.
Remember; you are not the sum of your failures and successes. You exist beyond them
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